“Gay-dar”.. reply

So I wasn’t sure if I should reply on msn, or through a post, but I wanted to reply to your post. This way is simpler cause I can just write it all out in one shot. Here’s hoping you’ll read this. I’m not saying this is why it’s messed, just maybe this’ll help? It’s how it was for me.

Before and after I had my first girlfriend my gay-dar was really off because before, I was really interested in her so other people I kinda felt attracted to just confused me. And after, because I was still attached to her and either looking to hard to rebound or just not attracted to anyone.  But being with a guy, I’d notice who was and who wasn’t a lot more.
It might also be off if you’re just feeling off overall. Or you might be confusing just generally being attracted to someone with being attracted to them romantically. It happened between my best friend and I, and once we talked it over we realized it was just physical comfortness and misreading the things we were feeling. It’s really hard to tell if you’ve never really talked to the person.



And my aunt’s only got a little while to live from cancer, if that’s any help to your post after that. I hope you’re doing okay…