Gotta get over it

So I really want her in my life. I dont want to not talk to her anymore. Apart from her.. both of us.. being a bitch about this, I love everything about her and I want her in my life. Maybe I should just suck it up and pretend I'm over. Maybe she'll talk to me more then... but then I'll end up 3 years from now, still in love with her and she'll probably be engaged or something and there's nothing I can do because she'll never like me that way again.